Friday, February 17, 2012

Dear Heart, Love Your Head

I have a question for you all. Why do our hormones continue to tell us we like someone even after we are 90% sure there is no chance of a relationship? I blame this on my hormones because surely my brain knows better than to set me up for failure. But my heart it doesn't care it only wants what it wants.

The worst dilemma to be in is liking someone, they know that you like them, yet they don't really do anything about it. You KNOW that this obviously means nothing is going to happen between you too.



Yet for some reason you still cling to that small hope that maybe they really "aren't ready for a serious relationship right now." (This is still doubtful.)

Is it that we crave love and affection SOOOO much that we will figuratively throw our heart out into moving traffic in the hope that we will make it to the other side and be in love with someone that loves us back?

Well what I have to say to this is that sometimes our heart needs a good smack from our head. Stop wasting your time and feelings over someone that you know it won't ever happen with. Even if something were to happen the fact that they are falling all over themselves to be with you now shows that they are clearly not worth your time.

I really really badly need to take my own advice. Hopefully I will take it soon before I end up getting hurt sending out all my feelings and getting none in return.

I strongly believe that when you find "The One" they will also have that innate sense that you too are extremely special to their lives. If the person you are craving isn't sensing that, despite your attempts, cut your loses and move on to bigger things!

So I will leave you with a lovely Journey song that describes this situation moderately well:


As Always, Stay Classy
XOXO


Hayley

14 comments:

  1. Yes, when you find the right one he will know too. Hang in there!

    Jayme @ Her Late Night Cravings

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  2. I am constantly trying to rationalize this kind of stuff to myself. But no matter how much I KNOW something, I can't stop FEELING something totally different. It's infuriating. "Get on board heart. This isn't the guy for you!" If only that worked. Sigh...

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    1. So true!! But if we keep telling ourselves enough that what we feel isn't necessarily what's best then hopefully eventually our heart will listen!

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  3. Hey Hayley! Happy Friday! I wanted to tell you that I awarded you the Liebster Blog award for up and coming blogs! Check out my blog for the details and what to do next! Congrats!

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  4. This is a toughy, but when the right guy comes along your head and your heart will line up. I promise.

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    1. I'm going to trust you girl. Thank you!

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  5. You're lovely and whomever is not returning your feelings it a total douche. :)

    When the right one finds you, they'll know just like you will.

    xx
    Tab
    my-cliffnotes.blogspot.com

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    1. Thank you Tabitha!! That made my day. :)

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  6. This blog just literaly said everything that I am feeling and going through right now and really dealt with it for a few years now. I don't know if my brain will win this one or not but thanks for posting this blog!!

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    1. You're very welcome Cody! I hope it helps!

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  7. The right person will come along eventually and you'll know it when they do. Keep your head up and your heart open.

    ♥ Duckie.

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    1. Thank you Duckie! That's great advice.

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