Monday, February 6, 2012

Dear Former Boyfriend


I wrote this one week after my break-up. It makes me so happy to know that I was this sure of myself and that I still feel the exact same way. I just thought it would be nice to share with you all. 


Dear Former Boyfriend,

I loved you and I was willing to be with you the rest of my life… IF you could change just a few things. But those few things are who you are and what if I don’t like the person you become.

Even though you took away so much from me; my family, friends, most importantly my self-worth I do not hate you. I hope that you gained from me as much as you took.

Realizing that you were not my burden to bear was the most freeing feeling in the world. I am free to be myself, love myself, love whoever I want too. I just want to thank you for teaching me who I am and what I want out of this life. Though it is so much more than you could ever offer me.

Good bye forever,
Freed Spirit



9 comments:

  1. I wish I would have done this in the past. Hope you are having a fabulous day. xo

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    1. You still can if you are struggling with letting go of something from the past. It helps! And my day has been fabulous! Thank you!

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  2. I like this letter. I hope writing it helped you. :)

    Just dropping by from #FF. :)
    Holly
    http://adventuresofholly.com

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    1. Wonderful! And it helped me so much to remind me of why I made the decision I did.

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  3. Great letter. I have to admit that I have a few guys I still need to let go of and realize I'm better off without them.

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    1. Sitting down and explaining to yourself why you are better off without them really helps!

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  4. Good for you!!So inspiring! You are a strong, beautiful women and it's obvious you know that!!

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    1. Thank you Liz!! I hope that my experiences can help others learn from my mistakes.

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  5. hey! this is a great post and makes everyone realize many things, and things that are sometimes most important like family & friends!

    also, if you are interested in guest blogging for me, I think we could set a date for Tuesday, February 21st? Let me know if this is ok with you!

    Best Wishes from,
    classicglamblog.blogspot.com

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