You're not going to want to hear this, but you don't have it all figured out. The things that you think mean the whole world, like getting your first kiss, falling in love, getting that boy to like you, they aren't that important so don't sweat it.
You are going to have your heart broken when that boy you really liked tells you he doesn't feel the same way at the track meet. But you should be so proud that you didn't cry because he will gain about 50 lbs. and stay in your hometown.
My "boyfriend" when I was 14.
You will think that your first kiss is the most important thing in the world and that it is all you care about getting. Believe me, it won't be that great. In fact it will be absolutely terrible! But don't worry there will be many more kisses to come with boys you really care about.
You may think that you aren't popular or cool because you don't want to party. Those people will end up dropping out of college and staying at home. You are so much better than them.
My baby sister and I
In the years to come you'll go against your gut and make decisions you will regret. But just remember that the most important thing you have is your family and you should never let anyone or any boy come in between your relationship with them.
Most of all remember that even when it seems like the world is over, your life is just beginning.
Love,
20 year old You
This is AMAZING. : ) If only we could tell ourselves these things when we were younger.
ReplyDeleteThank you! I'm glad you found it amazing. If I had told myself these things I would have saved myself a lot of tears!!
DeleteAwww, this is so cute!! :)
ReplyDeleteThank you so much Melissa! You're like a blogging celebrity to me and I am so thrilled you read my post and enjoyed it!
DeleteSo true!!! If only we knew then what we know now!
ReplyDeleteThe best part is that we will probably still be saying that 50 years from now!
Deletei wish we could all write to out young selves and have them read it..although I'm sure we would shrug ourselves off! Have a great day-amazing post!!
ReplyDeleteI'm sure someone at one point tried to tell me something similar but I just didn't listen! Life is about the learning experience I guess.
DeleteThere are soo many small things that we would all go back and change, but it is these little things that made us! Funny how the important things in life change!! Cute post!
ReplyDeleteVery good point!! Every "heart break" makes you who you strong and better!
DeleteHe'll gain 50 pounds, lol awesome. Love it.
ReplyDeleteHappy Monday~!
Tab
my-cliffnotes.blogspot.com
He really did! It made me feel better that he rejected me!
DeleteI love this post!! How cute are you as a 14 year old?! I wish I could write myself a letter as an adult...
ReplyDeleteAhh! Thank you girl! I wouldn't exactly call that cute.. haha. And I wish we could too!
DeleteHaha! Aww :) Hayley- I just wanted to let you know that I needed to change 2 things on your guest blog post- the necklace and jeans! :( The necklace link came to a page with many necklaces and I couldn't find the right one :( the jeans weren't showing up! :( However, I found good replacements, and your post will be up tomorrow!
ReplyDeleteBest Wishes from Classic+Glam
Funny, I remember thinking I knew it all when I was young. When I turned 20 reality set in and I realized I had a lot to learn.
ReplyDeleteYou are a very wise young lady! looking forward to reading more of your posts.
Jackie (my son is your age)
Thank you Jackie! I think knowing that I DON'T know it all is the first step in understanding it all.... or so I hope.
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